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Wedding Invitation Wording Samples

The design is totally up to you, but when it comes to the copy there are a few things that definitely need to be included.

by Amanda Black





You can have the most gorgeous invites ever, but when it comes down to it, they need to be informative. They should spell out all essential wedding info—who's getting married, who's hosting, and where and when the ceremony will take place. If your wedding style is more unique or modern, feel free to express that by breaking a few rules. Your wedding invitation is the first impression guests will have of your wedding, so it should sound like you.


Traditional Wording:


A couple of tips: If the bride's parents are hosting, it’s customary to leave off the bride's last name. But in the case of a bride having a different last name than her parents, her full name should be used. If the groom's parents are involved, the bride's last name should be included. In its simplest form, this is the standard wording template.

Mr. and Mrs. John L. Smith

request the pleasure of your presence

at the marriage of their daughter

Heather Marie

to

Michael Francis Jacobson

Saturday, the seventeenth of May

two thousand and nineteen

At six o’clock in the evening

Plaza Hotel

New York, New York

Reception to follow



If one set of parents is hosting:


Since you’re including the bride's parents’ names on the invitation, you do not need to list the bride's last name (unless she has a different last name than her parents). On the following line, the groom’s entire name should be written out.

Formal

Mr. and Mrs. John L. Smith

request the pleasure of your company

at the marriage of their daughter

Heather Marie

to

Michael Francis Jacobson

Saturday, the seventeenth of May

two thousand and nineteen

at half past four in the afternoon

Casual

John and Eliza Smith

invite you to share in their joy at the marriage of their daughter

Heather Marie

to Michael Francis Jacobson

Saturday, May 17, 2019

at 4:30 in the afternoon






If both sets of parents are jointly hosting:


List the bride's parents and groom's parents on separate lines, starting with the bride's. Since both last names are included in the greeting, you don’t need to use either the bride’s or groom's last name. Of course, the same exception we mentioned above would apply here if either the bride or groom has a different last name than their parents. In that case, list out the full bride’s or groom’s name, in addition to the full names of the parents.

Formal

Mr. and Mrs. John L. Smith &

Mr. and Mrs. Mark Franklin Jacobson

request the honor of your presence

at the marriage of their children

Heather Marie

and

Michael Francis

Saturday, the seventeenth of May

two thousand and nineteen

at half past four in the afternoon

Casual

John and Eliza Smith

along with Mark and Sally Jacobson

invite you to share and celebrate at the marriage of their children

Heather Marie

and Michael Francis

Saturday, May 17, 2019

at 4:30 in the afternoon



If you’re hosting:


If you’re paying for the wedding yourselves, the greeting skips the host line and begins with the request line.

Formal

The honor of your presence

is requested at the marriage of

Heather Marie Smith

to Michael Francis Jacobson

Saturday, the seventeenth of May

two thousand and nineteen

at half past four in the afternoon

Casual

Heather Marie Smith &

Michael Francis Jacobson

invite you to share in their joy at their wedding

Saturday, May 17, 2019

at 4:30 in the afternoon



If everyone is hosting:


If everyone is paying for the wedding, the invitation begins with the bride's name, followed by the groom's name, and finally the parent's names, starting with the bride's side.

Formal

Ms. Heather Marie Smith

and

Mr. Michael Francis Jacobson

together with their parents

Mr. and Mrs. John L. Smith &

Mr. and Mrs. Mark Franklin Jacobson

request the honor of your presence

at their wedding

Saturday, the seventeenth of May

two thousand and nineteen

at half past four in the afternoon

Casual

Heather Marie Smith &

Michael Francis Jacobson

together with their parents

invite you to their wedding

Saturday, May 17, 2019

at 4:30 in the afternoon



If you’re a same-sex couple:


Same rules apply! The host of the celebration (read: the financier) is listed first, following their partner’s information. If the couple is hosting, names are typically listed in alphabetical order.

Formal

Mr. and Mrs. John L. Smith

request the pleasure of your company

at the marriage of their daughter

Heather Marie

to

Jennifer Anne Davis

Saturday, the seventeenth of May

two thousand and nineteen

at half past five in the afternoon

Casual

John and Eliza Smith

invite you to share in their joy at the marriage of their daughter

Heather Marie

to Jennifer Anne Davis

Saturday, May 17, 2019

at 5:30 in the afternoon

What You Need to Know for Having Bridesmen and Groomswomen

From attire to parties to etiquette, get the advice you need when swapping bridesmaids for bridesmen.

by Carrie Anton

Most traditions are no longer a must when planning your wedding, and that certainly applies to who makes the cut in your wedding party. Gone are the days of men on one side and ladies on the other. By mixing things up with a coed wedding party, the bride and groom can have their favorite people—regardless of gender—standing next to them in support.

"You get to be surrounded by the ones you want to be by your side," says Alex Chalk, senior planner for Taylor'd Events. "It becomes a truly personalized experience that you can look back on and feel thankful you chose what felt right to you."



Stuck in Tradition


While some guests will enjoy a switch from the norm, others might find it odd or off-putting. If these others are your parents or someone who you feel strongly needs to be on board, communication is key.

"Ask family members about their hesitations; part of alleviating the hesitation is to hear out all parties' concerns," says Araceli Vizcaino-S, community manager for Azazie, a made-to-measure dress online retailer. "Many times they don't understand where you're coming from, and it's helpful to understand that it's important you have these people by your side on your wedding day."

Chalk also says to remember whose celebration it is. "If you can't convince someone with more traditional views, then take solace in the fact that you are doing what feels right to you. It is your day, after all."